Kevin recounts his mother’s 2020 stroke that left her in a six-week coma, followed by rehab. He says she woke unable to read, speak or walk and later struggled with drinking tied to pain and rheumatoid arthritis. He notes that the brain injury did not erase the part of her he calls Tatum, but it changed their dynamic and, unexpectedly, their closeness.
The writer, who shares work on his Substack Serenity Side Down, describes his own recovery journey and the tension of being told to create boundaries while fearing abandonment. He reveals Tatum told him she’d been suicidal and drinking, but says she has not used alcohol or drugs since that time and he’s proud of her effort. Kevin ends by celebrating their forgiveness, her new role as a grandmother and his pride in being her son.